My Belief on Letting Go

Why do we hold on things that are important to us? Most of the people in our population often has something that we hold dear. Often these are things that are given to us by our love ones. Being sentimental to a thing varies from each individual. It is subjective to different individuals.

One of the most painful thing to give up is your very first house. Giving up your house is a very sad idea for some specially those that worked so hard to attain that possession. In every situation there are different solutions just like a road. There are so many roads, often you just have to choose the one that will lead you straight to your destination. One solution for your house is to transform it into a rental house through this, you do not have to give up your house and you even have money for your needs.


It is a nature of every human to gratify each need though sometimes there are things that we really have to give up. A bunch of clothes that does not fit to you needs to thrown away from your closet in exchange for clothes that fits to you well. 


In conclusion, in dealing with a loss we should all be calm. It is not the end of the world, change is the only thing constant in this world. When you lose someone just think that another one will come and this time this is the one who fits well with you.

A Trampled Aspiration

A woman can produce offspring

From my previous post I am sure that I said that I am not a feminist, well I take that back. I am now confirmed that I need to defend my gender. I need to speak and let people hear and fully comprehend.

Honestly speaking I do not have any problem with homosexuals I do believe that we live harmoniously in a parallel world. The events lately  bugged my mind when Mr. Trump announced that trans genders can now join the Miss Universe.

Miss Universe is the most prestigious pageant a woman can achieve in her life. The aspiration of every woman to be named as the next Miss Universe. The aspiration of each and every woman in the world to be known as the most beautiful, elegant and intelligent. To be named as Miss Universe is one of the most prestigious award a woman can have.

If trans genders will now join the said contest it will the biggest insult for women. I am 101% sure that most self esteem of women will be crushed. Women are now struggling on how fat they are, when will their wrinkles show and now they have to worry if they are more beautiful than a cross dresser.

Genetically and morally speaking, trans genders are still men. They do not have the capability a woman has. A woman can give true happiness to a man by giving them their daughter or son. I hope the world will realize someday that women has many things to worry, please do not add to that.

Gender Discrimination Still Exists

Women are being women and men should be men as well.

A question popped out in my mind earlier today when I was in the mall and what I commonly saw were women. I just wondered why women are increasing in number and why not even one became a President of United States.  I am do not agree with feminism totally but I think even many claim that women are treated equally with men, gender discrimination remains at large.

Many believe that we are already in a liberated world and gender discrimination is uncommon. Well, you have to rethink if you have the same belief with that statement. Gender discrimination is still happening in our everyday lives. Even now uneducated women are still greater in number than uneducated men. Men are often a gender preferred by employers. According to the latest UN statistics dated on 2009, Egypt has 5.2 men unemployed while 22.9 women are unemployed and more nations has the same statistical trends with Egypt.

Blurred pieces of information are now becoming clearer to me. How silly of me to wonder why no woman succeeded to become a President in a strong country such as United States. Check out the percentage of women in high government positions. Mostly it does not even reach up to 50% or more. When a woman becomes a nation’s President the countrymen will divide into two opinions. One opinion is they will be impressed that a woman is in a high position and another is to criticize and think that she is weak to make decisions for the country. They often think that her decisions will be affected by the people who surrounds her. It is true that women often show emotions than men but this does not mean that women are weaker than men.

Patriarchy is still in the mind of almost every people. I can not blame from them because it has been that way for so many centuries. I am still hopeful that someday women can work in a job that is particularly for men. I know that we just have to wait and by the looks of it we are now in progress. Women working as police and military personnel to provide the security to citizens. It is a slow progress but someday all jobs does not need to be tagged as for a man or a woman.

In conclusion, to this lengthy post, the world is not only for men nor for women. We should learn to live with each other. We are created individually with a purpose thus a women versus men is a silly issue from the very beginning. We are created to live in harmony with each other.